5 Essential Things to Do Before You Die

Estate planning isn’t just about money — it’s about protecting your family, avoiding unnecessary complications, and making sure your wishes are followed. Too many people put this off, but taking action now can save your loved ones stress and expense later. Here are five key steps I recommend everyone take before they die.

1. Create a Revocable Living Trust

A revocable living trust is one of the most powerful estate planning tools you can have. It doesn’t matter if you’re wealthy or not, or whether your kids are easygoing or difficult — a trust makes the process smoother for everyone. It:

  • Keeps your affairs private

  • Helps you avoid probate entirely

  • Simplifies the transfer of assets

Think of it as a way to keep control and ensure your loved ones don’t get stuck in court dealing with your estate.

2. Update Your Beneficiaries

After creating your trust, the next step is to update your beneficiary designations. If your accounts don’t point to the trust (or to the right people), the trust won’t do its job. Be sure to review and update:

  • Bank accounts

  • Retirement accounts

  • Investment accounts

Outdated beneficiaries are one of the most common estate planning mistakes I see — and one of the easiest to fix.

3. Transfer Property Into Your Trust

A trust only works if your assets are actually placed into it. Make sure to move:

  • Real estate

  • Business interests (like LLC or corporation shares)

  • Any other significant assets

If these aren’t transferred during your lifetime, your heirs may still have to go through probate to get them where they belong.

4. Establish a Power of Attorney

A power of attorney is critical for managing your affairs while you’re still alive but unable to make decisions. I’ve seen people lose everything because no one had the legal authority to step in. By naming a trusted person as your power of attorney, you ensure that:

  • Bills can be paid

  • Investments managed

  • Your finances are handled responsibly

This document protects you, not just your heirs.

5. Create a Will

Finally, don’t forget your will. While it won’t help you avoid probate, it’s where you name guardians for your children. If you have kids under 18, this is essential. Without it, the court will decide who raises them — not you.


Final Thoughts

These five steps — creating a trust, updating beneficiaries, moving assets, setting up a power of attorney, and writing a will — cover the essentials of a solid estate plan. Taking the time now ensures your wishes are carried out, your family is protected, and your legacy is preserved.